I’m excited about this episode!
There’s quite a bit of ground I cover. This a bird’s eye view on several subtopics. In this podcast I share what I’ve learned from Mina Irfan’s teachings. It’s a crash course on her work.
Here are a few themes discussed:
Women’s mate selection was done using strategy to ensure the best outcome for herself and offspring.
Emotional fulfillment is a new approach to procreation.
The “Gut Level Emotional Response” is how men fall in love with women.
Go shopping with a straight man to see this principal live in action.
The emotion-logic dynamic reflects what I discussed in Harmonious Imbalance
Men and Women connect with each other’s vulnerabilities, as we exercise our own strengths.
Learn more about men by recognizing their energy conservation switch.
Women are being disempowered by prioritizing emotional data in selecting men.
Roles are reversed: men are using more logic to select women.
The scales are imbalanced. Instead of connecting through our vulnerabilities, we are leading with our strengths creating more distance and less harmony.
Attention is not Desirability.
Validation is not intimacy.
For God’s sake. Men outline the relationship. Women decide. We’ve been operating backwards for too long.
It’s my hope that men and women begin to see one another in ways that inspires harmony and unification. It begins with awareness. The awareness of self, the patterns of others, and the intention behind behavior. When we examine these three aspects closely, we begin to discern their origin. From there, we determine if it emerged within or outside of us. Next we decide if we want to keep the storyline that led to the behavior or let it go.
Th Conversationalist is here to act as a prompt. Not to prescribe. Reflecting on our ideas and challenging our perceptions is the path that creates the best version of ourselves.
My thinking has changed many times over and will continue to do so. My desire is to experience deeper understanding and have more meaningful conversations. I hope to contribute to your mental ecosystem as we figure out this thing of life together.
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