This post is inspired from my Instagram story. I shared my observation that attractive qualities in the opposite sex are not just reserved for you. Here I’m expanding my thoughts:
Recognizing what you appreciate in your significant other, will show up in other places and with other people (it’s not just yours to experience)
Examining insecurity and immaturity
Being honest about whether your expectations match the reality
Many times we don’t realize what is behind the looks, money, or lifestyle. We assume it’s delivered immediately and on demand.
In actuality there are systems, routines and habits behind these desires that we don’t consider. If it’s your true desire, are you okay committing to the process? Or only the outcome?
My opinion on women identifying as “brats”
Gratitude being the missing component
Belief that desires are meant to be infinite, but not forgetting the human engagement is finite
Sharing two of my personal desires with my own reality checks
Where I’ve had to reset my expectations
Author’s note: If you’re interested in improving these themes personally, feel free to email me to schedule wellness consulting
If you’re interested in more of my reflections, you can check out my Instagram
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