Misleading Connections

Learning along the way

Hi ya!

I’m currently working on my next two posts on love.

I’m breaking down concepts to question our own interpretation of what it means to be loved. I’ll have that for you soon and looking forward to discussing it with you!

For those of you who didn’t hear my clip or would like to upgrade, I have the first podcast on my love inquiry here. It outlines how I’ve challenged my own understanding of love and invites you to consider different ideas for yourself.

In the mean time, I’m sharing two videos on my own misinterpretations in relationships and what I attribute it to. I’ve discussed both on my instagram in short form. Intermittent reinforcement can be found in my highlight reel “Psych Talks” and Boyfriend Behavior can be found on my instagram.

I’d also like to say that I’m an optimist. Most of the time, I believe that people make decisions out of fear, the intent is self-preservation not malice. Especially in matters of the heart. I can empathize and question if there is ever one “villain” in heartbreak.

Fearing rejection jeopardizes intimacy. Fearing abandonment undermines another’s effort. Fearing heart break finishes something before it even started.

I’ve been on both sides of every fear, the one showing up and the one holding back. My content isn’t meant to go in and bash anyone, but initiate an honest conversation with yourself.

Those are the ones that matter most.

A bonus video for my paid subscribers below titled “Checking Boyfriend Behavior”.

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Author’s note: If you’re interested in learning more about how to apply these concepts personally, feel free to email me to schedule health & wellness consulting

If you’re interested in more of my reflections, you can check out my Instagram