Men's Desire
To desire a woman. Innate coding dare I say. Yet the romantic in me loves to think of it as an art. It illustrates a craft, something intentional and creative, less genetic coding.
I’ve identified two categories of how men desire women. The desire to own and the desire to take ownership.
The first becomes contorted; love manipulating it’s shape into the form of lust. The later is the man who recognizes his duty and takes pride in how well it’s done.
For women, it’s important to know that men’s desire to connect is the common denominator. His intention and how he channels his energy is completely up to him. We as women are tasked to recognize the play and respond accordingly.
It’s my hope that when we identify signals early, we won’t find ourselves lost, sad and confused. Instead we’ll be loved, admired and handled with care.
I made this diagram over a year ago. I had someone look at it, very kindly told me it didn’t apply to everyone and I talked myself out of moving forward with the ideas.
A few days ago I went through an old journal, saw it and went straight to canva.
Sometimes less is more, especially when it comes to feedback. The person was well intended and very thoughtful, but I realized asking for opinions on the onset of an idea doesn’t allow it to bloom.
This topic isn’t fully flushed out, but a seed I’d like to plant. We’ll continue to water in future conversations.
I’m teaching a free class, called Analyze to Strategize this Tuesday, October 10th at 3:30 pm CST.
I’m breaking down my 3 step process to analyze the psyche of yourself and others. What will you learn?
How to identify the true motivation of yourself and others
How to analyze your own thoughts
How to hear what people DONT say
How to strategize the outcome you want to experience by becoming the person who has it
If you can’t make it live, the replay is available. Hope you can contribute to the conversation.
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