Dating Gurus & The Dark Femme
A Lecture Analyzing the Seductive Techniques of Three Online Mavens
A conversation that’s never been had before… A lecture that challenges theories, examines seductive techniques and reveals the true energy. More at the end of the email or you can wet your whistle here, but first a story.
I’m at the gym and I just finished my deadlifts, I did 3 more sets than normal. Winded, I need a very specific piece of equipment for the next superset…
I spot it. The classic gym dilemma. You need a piece of equipment that someone is sitting on. I go up to him and ask if he’s using it or just to rest. He told me I could have it, there’s something else he can use instead.
In that moment, I decided to take a risk…
“Will you move it over here for me?”
Surprised he said “Oh okay, you take my equipment and make me move it too?”
I couldn’t tell if he was flirting, sarcastic or annoyed that some girl asked him to do something.
I smiled, said something than thanked him and got to business.
Not sure what transpired… I finished my set and decided to ask if he wanted it back.
“No, I’m good. But you typed me. You need a man to open the door for you.”
I asked “Is that you?”
He thought about it and said something like I can be, and the conversation continued on.
I went back to my next superset. Another plank variation with kettlebells and static bear crawls. Lord help me.
He came back and offered his hand to properly introduce himself and said it was nice to meet me and hopes to continue seeing me around.
I had a feeling, took a chance and was pleasantly surprised by the response. For me… I love direct communication. Especially from men. I’m not as sensitive as most women when it comes to a man’s delivery. With this gentleman he called me out, addressed my play almost immediately with intrigue and kindness and continued to connect to get to know me.
My type of guy.
When it comes to men, I know I need a certain level of masculinity. This comes with certain traits… Some that aren’t enjoyable and not every woman could tolerate. I’ve learned I’m willing to accept severe communication because it indicates a level of clarity in the man. And courage. And I’d rather optimize for that than someone less defined who provides a soft delivery.
I’m looking for a sharp shooter. And that comes with liabilities. But one I’m willing to recalibrate for.
Will I nurture this gym acquaintance? Not feeling moved to. But I know there’s a level of compatibility and in 2 minutes I got the answers I was looking for.
Are you taking calculated risks? Or are you following instructions? Do you know yourself well enough to move on instinct or are you watching hours of YouTube videos to take notes on how to select your partner?
I will be addressing this dilemma in detail at my first ever online lecture here.
If there’s anything I’ve realized, the safe pick is a risk in itself. You can be as logical as you want, have the most thorough checklist…. But….
For the first time ever in history the longevity of our relationships is being measured by satisfaction. Which has everything to do with your feelings (and for some of us our hearts and spirit). This can’t be captured in a checklist even by a woman online with thousands of marriage testimonials.
Dating Gurus have great techniques, suggestions and strategies. They even hype us up when we need it.
But I’ve noticed a pattern…. They all tell you to pick the safe bet. The secure choice.
And…. What if that makes total sense…
But there’s sacrifices you don’t want to make? What if you are settling for traits and preferences you DO want but don’t think you should prioritize? Maybe they aren’t logical or secure or even… squeaky clean and perfectly healthy.
But there’s an aspect in you that’s all instinct. And not one single video tutorial can address yours. What if… that primal knowing is the golden key in selecting a partner..
There’s some mention of the instinctual dark nature of men and women, but I know we can optimize this aspect of ourselves in a way no one is teaching.
I’m very excited to announce I am teaching my first virtual lecture on The Dating Guru’s and The Dark Femme. What better way to examine the dark feminine range than to look at the women famous for their seduction and strategies.
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I've been a student of all three women. It's with great privilege that we get deep, honest and real about the dark femme and how she's being taught in her various degrees of dark, darker & darkest.
Represented by April Mason, Mina Irfan and Ashera 7.
I will be doing an analysis on each guru for how she expresses the dark and femme and the techniques she teaches for other women to do so.
Let's meet the fatales of the hour...
Syllabus
Prompts that will Lead the Lecture
How does each guru use the Dark Femme to seduce?
What are the techniques and strategies they teach on the Dark Femme?
Which type of man is each guru REALLY telling you to go for?
What are they implying but not out right saying?
How does each guru leverage the dark femme in her "light" and "dark" aesthetic?
What are the strengths & weaknesses in the various degrees of the dark femme each woman embodies?
Lecture is Live Wednesday, April 3rd at 7 PM CST
Early bird rate is available for 5 days only!
Early bird pricing of $111 expires March 20th, full price available after at $222. Recording is available for those unable to attend live. Looking forward to our conversation.
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